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In terms of the people - when I was dating about a year or so ago, I ran into a lot of flakiness, as other people have mentioned. Literally showed up to two dates and had people flake on me after 15 minutes of waiting. It seems to me a lot of folks, at least in East Bay where I mostly dated, were living really unanchored lives and had no specific goals inside of or even outside of a relationship.
I feel like faced with the question "what are you looking for? Not as much as in LA, but there are a lot of people focused on realizing some abstract dream. I notice this is often in the form of an art career that never starts or a podcast that never gets recorded. That all being said, all dating kind of sucks until it doesn't. I did end up meeting a fantastic woman and I am very happy with the time we get to spend together. So despite the aforementioned challenges, I think you can still get there if you care about yourself and stay patient and open to new stuff.
I mean was there, I waited around, called the person after 15 minutes, and both times heard that they were not even on their way or planning to come. Super weird behavior for where I'm from but I am told it's not out of the norm here.
I grew up here but moved away to SoCal for 6-ish years of my adult life. I didn't realise how good I had it there until I moved back here. Everyone here is alone and won't do anything about it. I feel like I'm back in college in the study room. Every time I'd go in everyone would be bundled up or sweating profusely And everytime I'd go adjust the thermostat. I like to get to know new people regardless. Speak for yourself, man. Everyone I know is socially active. We meet up many weekends. Most of us are in relationships, yes even the super nerdy guys. This sub feels like I'm reading about a hellish mirror realm version of the place I live, but I guess that's reddit for you.
Is everyone you know everyone in your work group? None of my friends work together, and we are just like the previous poster.
I don't hang out with people from work at all. I'm in a relationship but my friends who are single meet people all the time. I think most have given up on using apps.
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I literally do not hang out with anyone from work outside of work-related events. To be fair, I am active on our company softball team, but that's pretty much it--I don't consider them friends, just associates. I use to think the same, until I realize I wouldn't know this about someone unless you can observe their lives for weeks.
Most cases when someone is seemingly alone and isn't doing anything about it, it is because they actually ARE NOT alone, they are with someone, so there is nothing for them to do about it. It's already done. I see these same people in real life too Ok, perhaps you should've clarify that in the first place. Although my point about you will not know where they're doing something about it or not, it still stands.
Because unless you're constantly in the loop with their social life, you will not know. Even if these are your close friends or family, you will not know what they're doing all the time. You only know what you see or what they tell you. And they're engaged.
People are WAY more flaky here than anywhere else I have ever lived. Dating for guys here basically consists of swiping right and spending a bunch of time sending messages into the void to build up a neural network of bots with clever replies. There's some of that on the female side too, except generally I push for asking if we're gonna meet because no one is getting laid if we never meet and it's like, this awkward shuffle of "does she want me to take her out on a date?
Tbh all I want is to cuddle, be distracted from how homesick I am and the person I walked away from to be here, and to have a back and forth conversation about anything, and if I have to give a blowjob to do that, okay. I don't know that that's a relationship or a friendship, but that's what I want. Now happily engaged, but a few years back I bit the bullet and joined OKCupid because it seemed to be how it was done these days.
I was living down in Santa Cruz at the time. Had my own place, a job, a car and I mean, I consider myself an excellent first date in general but my confidence shot through the roof, enough so that when I first met my fiancee at a friend's wedding, I took a big cut and knocked it out of the park. So yeah I guess my advice is go down to Santa Cruz where most of the guys are either losers or live on top of 5 other dudes. Makes you look like Lord Fucking Byron in comparison.
My buddy moved to Tahoe and he said the same thing. The girls up their threw themselves at him because they were like "wow, you're not an opiate addict, you don't have 3 kids from 2 different women AND you have a stable job that isn't a seasonable job in tourism or entertainment industry???? He wifed up this gorgeous ER doctor chick and they bought a nice house, both ski and hike all the time and travel tons.
I think he won at life. Hell yeah. I found a 6 foot Jewish chick with big tits and a six figure job. I had to have blacked out and sold my soul to the Devil at some point. Its kind of what you make of it. For the most part I realized that cold approaching and stuff like that doesn't work as well as other places.
Cause if you are in the city chances are you don't live there, and saying "Want to go back to my place" and having to drive min to East Bay kinda ruins the whole thing. You have to become friends with the person first without friend-zoning yourself. I feel dating here is more like, can we tolerate each other for more than 30 min at a time as friends?
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